To Love is to Live and Learn

Life is full of surprises.  People come into your life and choose to actively remain.  Then their are others.  Those people who are placed into your life for purpose and reason, may end up leaving unexpectedly. . . slow and easy, or like a bat out of hell!   Those are the people who teach us life lessons.  Either way, the experiences are what we chose to live during those moments.  I’d like to consider my shared experiences as happy moments, without an inkling of regret or reservation.  Those moments become memories over a lifetime.  There are numerous experiences and memories that I love to share and talk about with others.  Then, there are specific experiences and memories I choose to keep to myself.  Honestly, I could write an autobiography that would make for excellent reading, raise an eyebrow, or turn a head!  As tempting a task it may be, I refuse to put myself through tortured drama at this point in time in my life.  Although, I’ll never say never to the notion.  There is a high probability that I will eventually, but only when the time is right.  Those specific moments are my treasured and intimate memories that I choose never to be free from.  They are my personal and cherished collection of a lifetime full of happy moments.  Each day I keep adding to my wonderful collection.

Eight Under the Belt

Reblogging this as TODAY, Feb. 8, 2016, marks my 9th year anniversary of being diagnosed with that dreaded breast cancer. My personal account of it all, but of course, with my sense of humor. Enjoy!

Reflections of the Heart

After a little over eight years, I thought it time I start blogging about that dreaded disease I had the displeasure to experience, which seems so long ago.  Yes, folks, I’m talking about cancer.  Breast cancer to be more specific.  Or as I called them, “The Intruders”.  I remember it like it was yesterday.  The norm was to have your first mammogram at the age of forty, so a month after I turned that golden age, I schedule my first mammogram.  The day came, and I was a little nervous not knowing what to expect.  Thank goodness, the technician had wonderful bedside manners, and was very compassionate all the while explaining what was happening step-by-step.  The standard procedure is to be notified at a later date after two radiologists read the film results.

I ended up receiving written correspondence from the facility.  After reading it, I wasn’t really too concerned…

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The Best is Yet to Come

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The months of August to January were a whirlwind of life events.  First time meet-ups, new friendships, impending divorce, holidays, then marriage reconciliation.  A new discovery of feelings and self-love had risen within me.  Courage and strength surfaced and peaked to their highest levels.  A voice that was once suppressed is now clearly heard loud and proud.  I’m falling in love again and on a daily basis.  It’s only the beginning of my new life.  Good things happen each day, and still, the best is yet to come. 

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(New Tattoo:  My Virgo zodiac sign & plumeria symbolizing my life’s new beginning )

To Find Ms. Kind

I absolutely love Marissa’s writing and had to share her hilarious story of our meet-up! 😁👍❤

Glorious Results Of A Misspent Youth

It started out a day just like any other day
Blue skies, pleasant temperatures, typical L.A.
But this Friday was special as I was psyched to be
Meeting soon at Starbucks, a group of bloggers 3.

For a wholesome day of fun, coffee, gossip, laughter
With Erika Kind, Corinneonline, Carolina at Yesterday After
All the women were so sweet starting off you see
But I don’t remember much after sipping my coffee…

And the next thing you know, well, the scene was quite outrageous
My head was pounding as I woke in a hotel in Vegas
Corinne was sprawled out on the couch and starting to come round
Carolina on the floor, Ms. Kind was nowhere found

Strange clothing strewn across the floor, emptied bottles of booze
A gap where I once had a tooth, Corinne had new tattoos
And in the other rooms we found a tiger and a…

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When Bloggership meet…we did!

I was very excited to meet up with these beautiful and talented women! Next time, hopefully, Kevin Hotter can join us!  Better yet, we can go see his comedy act LIVE on stage!! :D

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California 2015

And we finally met in California
on November 6 2015!

 

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Just WONDERFUL!

On Nov 5th I announced in my post “When Bloggership Will Meet” that something very special was about to happening and it truly happened we met here in California with Erika Kind, Marissa Bergen, Corinne and Me!!! We had great time and it was so wonderful to met the beautiful ladies behind their Blogs! It was indeed an emotional and beautiful day fulfilled with joy and happiness being able to hear our voices and hug each other
lots of smiles and sharing about us this time not behind a keyboard <3

Our meeting venue was at this Starbucks!

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While sipping a delicious Peppermint Mocha one of my favorite, we enjoyed our great time together talking a lot, and laughing a lot like friends that know each other from years and years, it was amazing how…

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A New Hello

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Concealed emotions once supressed now accepted

Twenty years of silent suffering finally surfaced

A blow to the ego was never intended

Understanding and sincere apologies appreciated

Forgiveness, yes.  Admittedly, this cannot be fixed

Want to give me the world you took from me

Gifts a-plenty and kind gestures galore

Too much to bare and too late to serve their purpose

Humbled by realization of past mistakes

Eager to acknowledge and validate

Ownership of blinded hurtfulness

Years of devoted loyalty wasted

Love enough to let go

Thank you for the goodbye

Time for my new hello